The Truth About Soulmates

This is one of the areas that people ask about the most. Who, what and where is their soulmate? And how to find that person?

The truth is you have more than one soulmate. Thank goodness! Who wants to try and track down that ONE elusive person? Here are other frequently asked questions about the mate of your soul...

How will I find a soulmate?

Never worry that you'll never find your soulmate. You WILL come together, and you have a better chance if you are open to it. Being open to this means that you know you deserve a true love and that you aren't so worried about finding him or her that you actually create a block.

How do I know if he/she is my soulmate?

This is easier than you think. People often believe that a soulmate union is pure bliss. Not so! A soulmate union is very deep indeed, but a soulmate will also challenge you, frustrate you, and dig in so deep it feels like a thorn at times. Simply put, it's a person that you can't get out of your system.

So are some soul mate unions actually negative?

Nothing having to do with the soul is negative. Everything we go through here on earth in our human form is presented to us so that our souls can learn, love, and grow.

Should I stay with a soul mate who is making me miserable?

Never! You deserve to be happy and have true love. Just because a soulmate has come into your life and you live in misery doesn't mean you have to stay! You are/were with this person in order to learn something. Believe it or not, many times it's the simple lesson of letting go and raising our self-esteem!

And don't forget, they are going through their own life lessons. If they're stuck in a low place--anger problems, abuse, addictions--they need to learn self-control, love and tolerance, but you shouldn't stick around while they refuse to learn!

Once you move on, your lesson is hopefully learned and you can now find a more positive relationship. Never stay with anyone who abuses you in any way!

How do I attract my soul mate?

Your energy reaches far and wide and your souls will recognize one another and come together at some point. The main problem is some people crave love so badly that they jump into the first relationship that comes along, stay in it and end up miserable, find someone else before they're even out of that relationship, then they attract more of the same...so on and so on.

Your energy is what attracts people to you. If you're in a bad place in your life or feel badly about yourself, you'll attract a person who is attracted to the energy you have at that time. So it's wise to be sure your self-esteem is in a good place and that the influences from your current or previous relationship isn't affecting you.

Everyone can find their soulmate. Don't ever believe you are meant to be alone or settle for someone who makes you unhappy. Be true to yourself, love who you are, release the past and any negative habits, and you'll soon find you attract better people...and your soulmate won't be far behind!